My tiny penis (hotwife says it’s not a cock) leaves my hotwife horribly neglected and deprived. Even when she used to let me put it in her she said it was still like she was forced to be celibate (reddit.com)

My hotwife and I have been married for 16 years. She took a break from being sexually frustrated about 10 years ago and let another man take over in the bedroom for us. He was about 9 niches and about the thickness of a hair gel can…she could fit 8.5 inches but that last bit hit her cervix. He made her orgasm five times on their first night together….and she squirted all over his bed. Unfortunately the arrangement didn’t last very long because he got into a full time relationship and moved and now my hotwife’s sexual needs have been neglected ever since. It was so bad that her gynecologist could tell she is basically celibate (my penis is too small to do anything to her) and she is getting health problems from the atrophy. She has had a hysterectomy and a sling at a young age (42) because her pelvic muscles and vaginal canal was completely unused and atrophied.

My hotwife and I both believe that a man’s status with a woman is earned and a big part of that foundation starts in the bedroom. If a man can’t satisfy his hotwife like a man than he doesn’t have that natural primal status with her. My hotwife is the authoritative one in our marriage (we make that our form of intimacy as well as the natural dynamic between us) and I’m allowed to go down and lick her when she wants…but my penis doesn’t go in her anymore. We stopped trying to have intercourse 5 years ago. When she used to let me – not only could she not feel anything but I’d get too overwhelmed and within the first 30 seconds I’d lose control and jizz. Needless to say she wasn’t ever turned on by that and it felt more degrading to her and humiliating to me…so we are essentially sexually divorced. We love our family dynamics and she loves me as her everyday husband (I probably submissively do more house chores than most husbands since we have a female lead marriage and my man-card has been revoked).

I’m hoping that one day soon she will get her own confidence up (she’s slightly bigger and self conscious now) and once again divide up the husbandry roles and let another man take over the conjugal responsibilities with her!!!

This is not a solicitation- but just sharing my predicament as a tiny penis husband. If my hotwife ever does seek out a Mr. Right for our predicament she has said it would be on her terms and she would do the seeking – it would have to be someone local to us…so again – this is not asking for résumés but rather sharing from a beta husband point of view – I hope she does agree to a new arrangement soon!!

What I’d like to know is, from the women, what would you do if you were married to this little beta penis? It’s about 4 1/2 inches long and it’s girth is very skinny…I’ve never been able to make a woman moan LOL. Would you allow this penis to be the man of the house – or would you put it in its place??!! In the most ideal fantasy world – how would you make this husband behave towards you and how would you make him be worthy to you to keep as your everyday house husband? (Looking for ideas for us)

And I enjoy hearing from the Bull’s too…if you had the opportunity to become Mr. Right for a married woman that was this sexually deprived and neglected – to take over the conjugal duties for this married couple – what would your requirements be? How would you handle the arrangement….would you enjoy being considered the Man-of-the-House for a married couple who needs help in this department….would you have the patience to be gentle and rehabilitate this deprived neglected hotwife for however long it took until she could comfortably handle being fucked by a real man again? And if you had the opportunity to take over for a couple like us, what role would you want the little beta husband to play? How would you want his demeanor to be when you are around- not only to keep the arrangement positive and healthy – but for your own sake as the Alpha Male – as keeping you tuned in is important too as long as the deprived hotwife is the center of focus. I think it’s a great dynamic to explore – if you are rescuing a sexually deprived hotwife and slowly getting her acclimated to your big cock so that she can once again be bedded by a real man- which would now be your job…as the Alpha Male with another man in the equation- how would you establish yourself in this new role – I imagine every Bull or Alpha is different- in what ways would you want to be shown the respect by the beta cuckold husband being the new Alpha for her.